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Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Parenting - Challenges and Uncertainty "Our Children Belong"
When our young people's voices cannot be heard only judged, they tend to move towards those who do hear them. And when they do, they hear the good or bad influences imposed by those who listen. Their intent is to steer them away from the truth. Dear parents let your child know their voice is important, to you. They will be more apt to talk freely and openly as a direct result. More importantly, they will listen to your advice.
I know how to step back and allow my adult children to be adults regardless of their choices and the results. It is sometimes necessary for us as parents to find our own way and stop trying to forge the path for our children. They will follow our lead, or perhaps they will embrace paths we feared to. It's their choice. They are no longer tethered to our side. Each journey we take in life leads to new possibilities and new discoveries. Just think, how would 15-year-old you see you today? Would you be willing to follow your lead? Would see yourself as never achieving your goals in life? Do you feel you have achieved your true purpose for being? Would you be elated and overjoyed about every choice you made during the course of your life? Would there be regret? Longing? Did you end up where the 15-year-old you were headed? It may feel like you are abandoning your baby in the stroller by giving them space and time to grow. You won't be. There are risks. However, finding the ways and means of guiding them while simultaneously allowing them the freedom to explore life's unique pathways - the path created by God for them can be very challenging. Growth comes as a result of experiencing difficulties and diversity. The risks are real, challenges will come and go, and life holds uncertainty. Don't give up on them. Don't quit. Do your best. With the help of God, you will find the end results offer so much more than you could have ever conceived.
Written by Adrienne Vanterpool in support of Hanifah Talks and https://peninsulainterfaithcc.com/
Monday, June 19, 2023
What You Should Know Before You Say
Before you put a "ring on it". Before you say, "I do". How well do you really know your partner? Dating can be frightening. We want to put our best foot forward. We dreg letting someone really get to know who we really are for fear they may or may not stick around. So, up pops our representative saying all the right words and behaving their best to win you over. Have you ever heard a newlywed say, "I never knew or saw this behavior before we got married"? Often shortly after the honeymoon feeling bewildered and ready to call it off.
Every relationship takes time, valuable time. Spend it well. Get to know the person you are in a relationship with thoroughly. Don't make assumptions, ask questions and listen for the answers. The most important thing is to hear what another person is saying. Not what you think they are saying. There can be a huge disparity in what you think they said as opposed to what is really being said. Don't be afraid to ask again for the sake of clarity. Be deliberate and intentional during your discussions. Better now than finding out later you have real compatibility issues that cannot be resolved through marriage counseling.
Is your partner a team player? Does he or she have a poor credit history? Are they honest and transparent? What are their views - politically, economically, religiously, and so on? This all matter. Couples that marry become families. Your forever person's opinions and ideologies play an important role in raising children. Do you want children? Do they? These questions all seem like pushing the envelope off the table during the dating stage. However, when your relationship grows beyond the casual dating point, they all need to be addressed. We are talking about your future and the type of lifestyle in intend to live.
Written by Adrienne Vanterpool in support of Hanifah Talks and https://peninsulainterfaithcc.com/
Sunday, March 26, 2023
Thursday, January 23, 2020
International Travel: Here's Some Things You Should Know
International Travel Issues for Americans Find helpful resources for Americans before traveling outside of the U.S., including how to exchange money, get visas for certain countries, and sign-up for government travel programs and safety alerts. Also, learn how to apply for an international driver's permit.
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Gratitude and Willingness
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The Many Faces of Addiction
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Wednesday, September 5, 2018
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Friday, August 24, 2018
Weight Loss: You Can Be Successful
Does everyone really want to lose weight?
We All Want to Lose Weight – Right?
Plain or Fruit Infused Water Way to GO!! |
Let’s examine our sugar intake.
The Sugar Addict would fall off the wagon here. |
Choose Fruit |
Treat yourself to a night out. |
How about those mystery meats?
Ever wonder what ingredients are in sausage? |
Did you read the label? |
Home cooking is not a guessing game. |
What can be done?
- Begin by preparing most meals at home, that way you know exactly what ingredients are in the food.
- Walk more; movement is a key element of obtaining and staying healthy. Start off by walking a little more each day, you don’t need a gym membership.
- Don’t overdo it, you can hurt yourself, moreover, walking for long distances can be boring to someone who’s not used to doing it. To prevent stopping your program before you have a set routine in place, start slowly, and be deliberate in all your attempts.
- Examine your sleep patterns; sleep has an awful lot to do with weight gain. If you are not getting proper rest your body will retain fat, water, toxic, and eventual become sick.
- Manage your stress level, stress causes a host of problems and weight gain is just one of the symptoms of a stressful lifestyle.
- Practice meditation; meditation is good for your overall health. Once you have established a regimen of meditation practices you will most certainly notice the difference. Do everything in moderation; developing healthy habits take time, therefore, take a balanced approach.
- Don’t beat yourself up if you fall back into old habits, just start over right then and there. Reassess your goals, examine how you are feeling, and move forward. “Adrienne Vanterpool”
Thursday, August 23, 2018
The Strength to be Honest
Developing the strength you need to be honest with yourself will change your life.
Be open to Honesty |
Strength Journal |
Saturday, August 18, 2018
Thursday, August 16, 2018
Hydration
There are many reasons for reaching and sustaining healthy hydration.
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
The Shocking Reality of Death
Unpleasant as it feels death is a reality
Sunday, August 12, 2018
Morning Meditation
Begin Your Day with Prayer, Praise and Worship
Prayer is talking to God. Bring all your trouble to God, tell Him all about it. Phrases I've frequently heard over the years. Talking to God is often used as a means of complaining about our situation. Let's try something a little different this morning. Begin your conversation by acknowledging His many gifts, each strong and present in your life right now. This is where praise comes in, you can't help but praise God after realizing you woke up this morning not on your own accord but by His grace and mercy. Your eyes opened to behold another day. You took a deep breath, eased out of bed, walked to the kitchen, sat in your favorite chair. What wonders to behold. You are alive, seeing this new day in the comfort of your home, filled with your stuff or somebody else's stuff, it really doesn't matter you are here experiencing each and every moment by His grace and mercy. Allow your tears to flow as you worship the Creator in spirit and in truth. You are the recipient of gifts only He could provide. He alone is the bestower of life don't take it for granted. Allow your gratitude to blossom you'll be amazed at what God does in your life. It can't get any better than another day with new possibilities for growth in every dimensions. Be blessed. "Adrienne Vanterpool"
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